Anxiety is quite a struggle for women and men alike. Many of us are constantly working to overcome overwhelming anxiety. Anxiety is very inconvenient and takes no thought of what I’m trying to accomplish. Come to think of if it is an invasion of my peace.
I also find that anxiety shows up whether I’m ready or not. I have felt it creep up on me in moments like during or after time with family or friends.
That is out of line, right?!
Next, it’s important for you to know that anxiety often presents itself as quick-moving thoughts, a restless leg, upset stomach, tension headache, shortness of breath, you name it!
CIRCUMSTANTIAL or relationship driven anxiety
Most commonly, my anxiety stems from a circumstance involving other individuals. By this, I mean that it is as a result of a person or persons attending an event or person(s) involved with certain news.
These are a few examples of how anxiety can be brought on as a result of interaction with someone.
These circumstances can produce panic.
Example 1 – I’m attending an event/gathering with family and/or friends. A conversation triggers me, sending me to a place of insecurity or offense toward another person(s).
Example 2 – I’m attending an event/gathering with family and friends. A person walks in the room who triggers my insecurities or changes my comfort level.
Example 3 – Watching the news or having a conversation with someone sends me into a whirlwind of emotions.
So, do any of these examples resonate with you? If you seem to encounter anxiety as a result of your circumstances with others, I want to share some hope.
What Would God Have me do To overcome overwhelming anxiety?
God’s will is that we would serve him and that his sons and daughters would love, honor and respect one another. As we serve God and are being filled with the Holy Spirit, he wants three things from us.
Number one, as believers we should walk this earth always remembering the bright future we have ahead of us. We can always take joy in the certainty we have of the second coming of our Savior, Jesus Christ, and the eternal glory we will experience.
Secondly, life on this earth is difficult even for believers. This is not our home. Heaven is our home. We face situations that cause us to become frantic and stressed. But the word of God says for us to be patient in distress. Patience requires us to take a deep breath and dial the intensity back. We may not receive an answer immediately or solve a problem instantaneously with a brother or sister, but having patience allows us to endure as we wait on God to have his way.
Finally, we must stay committed to prayer. God wants to hear from us about everything. As scripture mentions, he wants us to come to Him for wisdom, guidance, and strength. We must not stop praying, even when it’s hard to. Prayer ultimately assists us in our relationships and interactions with others. Call out the name of Jesus, even if you cannot manage to utter the prayer you desire. He will hear your cry, guaranteed.
So, you may be wondering why there is a connection between anxiety and the circumstances/people related to it. Staying hopeful, patient, and prayerful will lower the heightened response that often turns into anxiety and panic.
Wrap up
The anxious thoughts and the physical feelings of distress may come, but I have found that when I focus on what gives me hope, become patient and pray tirelessly that my anxiety begins to lower.
For example, the other night, I was in a lot of pain from stomach spasms brought on by stress. The stress came about after obsessing over what others may think of me. It was so intense. Instead of suffering in pain, I practiced hopefulness, patience, and prayer. Ultimately, God took my pain away. Not only that, he placed me into a state of peace.
It’s is amazing!
Above all, the next time anxiety arises in your life due to your interactions and responses to other people, slow your thinking down and try out these biblical practices. They will assist you in your desire to overcome overwhelming anxiety.
Before you go, do you need prayer? If you feel led to, submit your prayer request here.
Weekly Scripture
“Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying.” Romans 12:12
I believe in medicine and therapy, but I also value my faith as a way to cope with the anxiety that I experience. In today’s video, I share 3 Bible verses that are sure to help you fight through anxiety. I break down there scriptures and present takeaways that apply to everyday. Let’s normalize using the Word as our weapon against mental illness.
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Ladies, it’s that time of year again, where we give Valentine’s Day gifts to the ones we love. Sometimes, some of us even spoil ourselves. I had that in mind when I decided to write this post.
Have you ever wondered what gifts are available for women, regardless of their age or relationship status? The products listed in this post are great for a female relative, girlfriend, your church’s First Lady, and the list goes on.
GIFT A BiblE
I’m the type of woman who loves to collect Bibles . I have a whole collection, full of different versions and types of Bibles.
Recently I have found enjoyment in bible journaling. I’m not the best doodler, but I do enjoy writing notes in the margins of my Bibles.
The Illustrating Bible is perfect for journaling or creating art in your Bible. This Bible has plenty of space in the margins and thicker pages to prevent bleeding. It is large, measuring 9 1/2″ x 9 1/2″ x 2″.
You or someone you love will love the keepsake box that it comes in and the high quality of the book itself. And what’s perfect for Valentines Day is that it’s pink in the NIV Version.
Click here to see more images and details about this beautiful Bible.
GIFT a devotional
Next, I believe a great addition to gifting a Bible would be to give a devotional.
Many of you may know Candace Cameron Bure from the hit show Full House and Fuller House. She wrote a devotional guide called Jesus Every Day: Love Over All. Here’s a short description of what you will find in the book.
In this devotional guide by Candace Cameron Bure, you’ll find 25 selections from God’s Word that explain what love really is, tell us why we should love others, and provide examples for how we should love other people.
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With Valentine’s Day being about love, this devotional is perfect to gift to a Christian woman.
Gift Jewelry
Another option if you are looking for something special is to gift jewelry.
A special card is included with the necklace and it says,
You are loved by Jesus. Higher than the sky. Deeper than the ocean. More than you’ve dared to dream. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You have a purpose and there is a good plan for you. You are fully and amazingly known by One who loves you more
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Gift Clothing
Next, graphic tees are popular to lounge in and dress down. Candace Cameron Bure also has a line of fun tees. The following is just one of many t-shirts available as a choice.
Also, consider giving a keepsake. They are great treasures that can be kept around the home or at work. The You Are Loved Glass & Metal Plaque is the perfect keepsake to display as a reminder that God eternally loves us.
In today’s video, I discuss how it’s important to give yourself grace during your mental health journey. After years of fighting anxiety, depression, and bipolar, I’m in mental health recovery! I’ve now reached a point where I’m able to hold myself more accountable to certain tasks that were harder before . I share with you, what works for me and how it prevents me from becoming overwhelmed.
During Christmas time 2020, my husband asked me to give him some ideas of things I may want as gifts. As I have gotten older, it has been a little harder to create a wish list because I am mostly satisfied with what I already have. But hubby insisted I give him a list. I started thinking about my priorities for this year. I remembered one of my priorities is self care.
I began an Amazon wish list of some things I could use during my moments of self-care. My hubby ended up surprising me with a self-care Christmas.
I will share beauty care ideas that you can place on your self-care ideas list in this post.
Self-Care For Your Face
Skincare is one of my favorite self-care activities. There is so much that you can do! You can try a face cleanser with a face brush, face mask, exfoliate with a face scrub, utilize serums, and so on.
Benefits include
Maintains healthy, elastic, shiny skin
Maintains youthful-looking skin
Prevents acne breakouts and scarring
Boosts your self-confidence when you are comfortable with your skin
One of my Christmas Day gifts was a facial brush.
My favorite features of my beauty care brush are
Make-up Sponge that massages and cleans the skin
Massage Head that massage acupoints and blends moisturizer in the skin
Coarse Brush that clears up dirt on the face.
Self-Care For Your Hands
The next idea that I have for you ladies is a manicure! Because we use our hands so much, it is vital to show them some TLC.
Here are some ideas:
Go to the nail salon.
At home, remove nail polish, soak hands and give yourself a spa experience with heated beauty mitts. They will leave your hands silky smooth and prepare them for your manicure. The True Glow by Conair Heated Beauty Hand Mitts is one of my favorite gifts I received for Christmas.
Groom your fingernails with a nail kit and apply your favorite polish at home.
Groom your fingernails with a nail kit and apply press on/glue on nails at home. My favorite brand is Kiss. The Kiss Products Store on Amazon has beautiful selections.
Self-Care For Your Feet
If you are going to do a manicure, why not also do a pedicure. Pedicures are great for keeping your feet soft and healthy in appearance.
Here are some ideas:
Go to the nail salon.
At home, remove nail polish, wash, and soak your feet using a foot spa, like this popular one on Amazon.
Groom your toenails with a nail kit and apply your favorite polish at home.
Self-Care For Your Whole Body
Also, consider taking a bath. Baths are very relaxing and calming. Utilize bath bombs, essential oils, Epsom/bath salts, and bubble baths. Dr. Teal’s Foaming Bath is a highly rated brand that includes pure Epsom salt and a lavender scent.
Besides adding products to your bath; also consider lighting some candles and playing your favorite chill tunes.
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